The holidays are upon us. It is such an amazing time of year! Especially when you have kids- they really help you get into the holiday spirit. The lights, the music, the excitement- it is so much fun if you actually enjoy it. Sure, the holidays can be stressful as well. Let’s face it.. every year I always say I’m going to have money saved, the wrapping done early, cookies baked and ready to go. How often does that actually happen? We always feel pressured to do a million things every season. As hard as this is to hear- we usually do this to ourselves. Half the things we…